The most important decision you'll make is choosing your life partner.

They’ll be your closest advisor, share your finances, and may co-create a family with you. When you’re 80, I want you to look back in amazement at how much they have elevated your life in all dimensions: health, wealth, happiness, and meaning.

If you’re an intentional, ambitious dater thriving in your career and personal relationships and ready to find an equally exceptional partner, I designed my coaching for you.

I created this because I was like you: an MIT engineer, BCG consultant, and Stripe product manager. I had a great career and friends but felt stuck with dating. In the 5 years I was single, I tried everything: hired 4 dating coaches, took 2 dating classes, and read dozens of dating books. I invested in becoming the kind of partner I wanted to attract. Now, I feel deeply grateful and loved with my partner every day and want you to experience the same.

That’s why I left Stripe to be a full-time dating coach. My life’s work is to teach high performers to attract inspiring partners and build deeply connected relationships.

Through coaching, you’ll become more emotionally available, feel more joy and meaning while dating, strengthen your connection skills, and deepen love for yourself and others.

I’ve helped dozens of ambitious leaders transform their dating lives using analytical frameworks (think MECE and OKRs) combined with emotional communication training (think Stanford Touchy Feely and mock dates).


Client love

Before working with Joyce, I had hit rock bottom in dating. I had been divorced and single for almost 3 years, stuck in a cycle of situationships. I felt hopeless that I’d find a great guy in my 30s. Joyce put me back on track! 3 months after I started working with her, I found my now-boyfriend. I would not be where I am today—happily in a meaningful relationship—without her. If finding a life partner is your #1 priority, I 10/10 recommend Joyce!

Harvard Alum

When I met Joyce, I’d been single for 7 years and on and off the apps for 5. I was low on hope and a bit of a recluse. Joyce helped me increase my confidence by redoing my profile, figuring out what I’m looking for, swiping accordingly, and handling first dates and beyond. I’m now not only more confident and in a happy, committed relationship, but also more outgoing in general. I’d happily recommend her to anyone in a heartbeat.

Staff Engineer

When I started with Joyce, I was burned out from dating. I had just gone on a series of mediocre dates and felt completely stuck. While I had read dating books, Joyce gave me constructive feedback that led to real change in how I showed up on my dates. She helped me become more comfortable being vulnerable on my dates, opening the doors towards deeper connection and meaningful conversations. I am dating someone exclusively now!

Tesla Product Manager

Joyce helped me move my life's plot forward. I started working with her having not ever been in a long-term relationship and insecure about my lack of experience. I’m now in my first long-term relationship!

a16z-backed Founder

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