The most important decision you'll make is choosing your life partner.

They’ll be your closest advisor, share your finances, and may co-create a family with you. When you’re 80, I want you to look back in amazement at how much they’ve elevated your life in all dimensions: health, wealth, happiness, and meaning.

If you’re an intentional, ambitious dater thriving in your career and personal relationships and ready to find an equally exceptional partner, I designed my coaching for you.

I created this because I was like you: an MIT engineer, BCG consultant, and Stripe product manager. I had a great career and friends but felt stuck with dating. In the 5 years I was single, I hacked dating: I hired 4 dating coaches, took 2 dating classes, and consumed dozens of dating books and podcasts. I invested in becoming the kind of partner I wanted to attract. Now, I feel deeply grateful and loved with my partner every day and want you to experience the same.

That’s why I left Stripe to be a full-time dating coach. My life’s work is to teach high performers to attract inspiring partners and build deeply connected relationships.

Through coaching, you’ll become more emotionally available, feel more joy and meaning while dating, strengthen your connection skills, and deepen love for yourself and others.

I’ve helped dozens of ambitious leaders transform their dating lives using analytical frameworks (think MECE and OKRs) combined with emotional communication training (think Stanford Touchy Feely and mock dates).

How It Works

I operate as an executive coach for your dating life. My clients are high performers who approach their dating lives with the same intentionality as their careers. They deepen their progress with a high-touch coaching partnership.

Rather than a "one-size-fits-all" curriculum, I meet you where you are, whether you’re rebuilding post-breakup and want to get back into dating, actively dating and want to improve and find the person, or navigating the transition into a long-term relationship.

The goal is to help you build the external strategy and internal confidence to create a fulfilling dating experience and build a meaningful connection with an exceptional life partner.

The Core Container

The core of our relationship is a 60-minute coaching session (held weekly or biweekly).

• Setting the compass: In our first session, we typically establish your “dating OKRs.” We clarify how you want your dating life to feel and concrete milestones you want to hit; these drive your focus for subsequent conversations.
• Client-driven exploration: I’ll ask questions to help you clarify the crux of your challenges, explore your patterns that might be getting in the way of your success, and brainstorm how you can take action from an aligned place. I can reference different tools, frameworks, and practices in real time and bring them into whatever we’re exploring based on your specific agenda and what’s most relevant for you. We wrap up sessions with tailored action items you commit to working on before the next session.
• Adaptive focus: We center our calls on whatever is most "up" for you that week. Some sessions are tactical "outer work" (e.g., improving your sourcing or filtering dates); others are deep "inner work" (e.g., working through limiting beliefs or honing connection skills).
• Structured methodology: While our calls are flexible, I’ll proactively pull from my client playbook—covering the 5 modules of The Dating Cycle—when we hit a growth area that would benefit from one of my structured exercises.
• Mock dates: If we determine that feedback on your connection skills would be valuable, we can use a session for a mock date with another client of the gender you date. I will live coach you two on a brief date-like conversation that gives you a rare window into how you show up on a date. You will also have the opportunity to ask each other for feedback.

Integration between sessions